话说时光如梭，光阴似箭，一转眼三年了
三年前的那个七月一日，我从工艺美院毕业，转学到了社会大学，梦想着这所新的大学能为我打开一片新的天地，梦想着有一天我可以在这个大学住豪宅、开名车、有好女人相伴…
三年后，我依然没有等到我的豪宅名车好女人，现实是无情的，社会大学不是这么容易混出头的。
三年来，我换了很多次工作，开了公司，破了产，失了恋，换了城市，却依然不死心，因为我觉得我不可能一直都这么倒霉，这个信心可能来自于小时候给我算命的那个老头，他说我命中注定是富贵命。虽然他大概只是为了向我老爸多忽悠一点算命钱信口开河，但是我却牢牢记住了他的话。这很容易理解，如果你很少有人肯定你，突然有人给你一些鼓励的话（即使是花算命钱换来的），那你肯定会死心塌地的相信这些话。随便说一下，上次在深圳路边那个算命的瞎子也是这么说的，不知道是不是他们都是用同一个套路来骗钱的。
从外表上看，我和那些社会大学二年级、新生没什么太大的区别，不知道是我本来就和他们年纪差不多，还是我外表看起来不够成熟的缘故。如果可以说的酸一点的话，我觉得自己的经历让自己过去的梦想更加坚定了，同时也明白要实现梦想的艰辛。不知道自己的运气是不是很差，我经手的项目几乎全都搞砸了，毕业的第一家公司，我待的那个部门后来解散了，然后换了一家政府网站上班，没多久那个网站就被卖给私人了；接下来我自己开了个做出口的公司，不到一年就倒闭了，不消说，肯定是赔本加赔时间；后来去了一个房地产网站，知道我离开，似乎也没有什么大的起色，所以，我想，我很需要一个成功的项目来证明自己的运气不是这么的差。所以，我换了个城市，又换了个工作，差点想去整整容换个脸，但是相信价格应该很高，所以也没去详细问。
其实我不是一直在强调自己的霉运，这样会让人觉得我是在推脱自己的不够努力，而把责任推卸给看不到摸不着的老天爷，归根结底人的命运要靠自己的性格来决定，每个人都有顺利和倒霉的时候，问题在于倒霉的时候我们能不能像顺境的时候那样信心百倍的去奋斗。
如果说我有什么觉得惭愧的话，我想大概就是我的这些失败经历；但是如果问我有什么是我人生中最值钱的东西，我想我也会回答是这些失败经验。如果把人生当作游戏，那么，一个没有任何难度，随随便便就通关的游戏会让你觉得有意义吗？大概每个人都会在通关之后问候一下游戏开发人员的直系亲属，骂一句：什么破游戏。相反，充满波折和探索的游戏永远都让人乐此不疲，而且在通关之后会很满足的嚎叫几声然后迫不及待的截图向别人炫耀。把一切困难和例如破产、欠债、失恋等等的经历都当成人生游戏的一个情节，这个想法虽然有点阿Q，但是我觉得很有用，在游戏遇到了问题我应该做的不是点quit结束游戏，而是很认真的去打怪，寻宝，升级，然后通关。
所以，尽管我在社会大学的前三年的成绩不算好，挂了红灯，但是暂时还没打算退学，我会在这里找准一门课程，拿个漂亮的分数，继续为豪宅名车好女人而奋斗。
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